QUIET MARRIED LIFE, BUT HOW?

The beginning of married life is unique and charming for both the parties but in our society from the birth of daughters a sense of responsibility is created in them - don't wear it, don't eat like this, don't walk like this, don't laugh like this, sit This is the place where mothers prepare their daughters mentally for marriage and for in-laws all their lives.

Some mothers even tell their daughters to read as much as they need before marriage. No study can be done by going to the in-laws - this is also true in the sense that new mothers focus on both education and home in their children's engagements. I can't give it. Some mothers say that they have to fulfill their hobbies at their parents' house. They don't know how to find a father-in-law.

From the birth of a girl to her departure, she is mentally prepared in every way to go to the next house, to own that house, to make every sacrifice and to lay the foundation for a new life - in our society, living at home is attributed to women. Although the reality is the opposite.

It is said that a husband and wife have two wheels of a car - the same two wheels of a marital car that drive it for life The reason is that a large number of women in our society suffer from stress, tension and depression - the burden placed on a woman beyond her means makes her suffer from many diseases, including depression. Working women in Pakistani society are also fulfilling their responsibilities at home - women who work outside the home bear the expenses not only of themselves but also of their in-laws, including their children - So women never forget the opportunity to make sacrifices - working women as well as women who are active members of a society that works from home.

These include women who know online, women who sew, embroider, craft, teach the Qur'an and tuition to children, women who cook and supply, women who sell clothes, women who paint and calligraphy. Including all - these are women who work alongside their husbands for the economic development of their home - it is not possible for them to leave the house due to the difficulties of children or in-laws - the women living in the house also constantly Seems to be busy cleaning and renovating their home.

As far as the role of a woman in married life is concerned, everyone from a housewife to a working woman seems to be talking about uneasiness in married life. There must be some problem in every home. The daughter-in-law is kept at home saying that if she does not get a job after marriage, then she is married to a government employee so that after marriage the wife carries her own burden - sometimes forcibly for the expenses of the in-laws' children. If they are incited for a job, then the employer is disrespected in front of everyone who comes and says that she does not do any housework.

Why is it that in our society, all the responsibility of building a house is placed on the head of a woman - is a man absolved of this responsibility? No, men are equal partners in this - in fact it is also the wrong training of our mothers who prepare girls to live with their in-laws from birth but forget that the training of this son is also very important. Let the woman live in the house - for the person for whom she will leave everything behind, the person will be rewarded with the same respect - which is the right of this woman -

The man is the ruler of the house and he has been given this status by his Lord - therefore the man should be trained in the same way that he can do justice to his subjects like a just ruler."Everyone is responsible for their subjects."

A man's obedience includes his wife, children, and parents. Islam teaches us moderation and moderation, but in the face of men in Pakistani society, the weight of parents is always heavy.

It is said that the scale on which a woman sits after marriage is very light, that is, she does not care about anything, anything, any argument - but her manners, loyalty, love, sacrifice, Due to sincerity and selfless service, the scale becomes heavier and eventually the man bows down to it. This is true and is considered the key to success in married life - the key to unlocking a man's heart - to unlock a man's heart, mothers send all the keys to their daughters. Such as the key to patience, the key to sacrifice, the key to keeping one's mouth shut, the key to accessing the heart from flour by cooking good food, the key to tolerating in-laws' wrongdoing, the key to self-sacrifice and love She uses it to unlock her husband's heart, but none of these keys work. Why is it that a stone-hearted husband is never waxed? It also happens that a woman is never rewarded even after so many services? Why is it that women's sacrifices are never mentioned or praised? Why is it that after trying all the keys, a woman becomes exhausted and frustrated with life itself?

First of all, keep in mind that the success of married life does not depend on the individual, but on mutual cooperation and harmony - a woman can make as many sacrifices as she wants to build her home, if not with her husband. Relationships can never succeed.

Just as every successful man has a woman's hand behind him, so every successful woman has a man's hand behind her back. Ask any successful woman about the man who will accompany her on her journey to success. The father and the married woman will mention their husbands - all the women who hold high positions or run a big company or business have the trust and confidence given by their husbands behind them. Incitement to increase - These women seem to be successful in their married life as well as in their work because of the support they receive from their husbands who have supported them.

Husband is very helpful in achieving a successful married life - always pray to your Lord to be with good people - parents look at the boy's appearance, education, job, salary at the time of marriage But they put nobility, family, and piety behind them.

“Habits trace generations.”Parents ought to provide priority to a decent family over cash once they wed as a result of pious those who concern the Almighty think about the girl of others as their own daughter. Married life is successful at the end of life - observation reveals all the successes and failures of life.

The experience of others is that a patient woman is successful, but at the same time it is worth considering that there is a man who runs the house and settles the marriage - women are all patient, they build the house. The queen is made someone on the tip of the shoe - so the success of a marriage is also hidden in the goodness of the man - patience and peace that kind of men always keep their home in all circumstances, the wife is stubborn and the tongue is long Even men who do not lose patience spend time with such wives. However, some children go to the mother and some to the father.

Just as a car drives with a balanced wheel, so does a car with a balanced relationship. Or if she is ill, her husband should serve her and be a partner in her grief. In this situation, even a complicated situation can be overcome.

The success of a marriage depends not only on the individual but also on the couple. It is the responsibility of both parties to strive to make the relationship stronger and happier so that the children too can show good behavior and patience to the next generation.